First off, all toys are yours. You allow your dog to play with your toys when you choose. This may be a familiar concept to your dog as his mother had the same rules. He could play with things but if she wanted them, he stepped back and let her have them. Just keep this pattern going, and things should go smoothly.

Create a play training session. Any time you train, use a non-tightening collar and leash. Give your puppy an uninteresting toy. Don’t worry if he picks it up at this point. Walk up and take the toy while you give your dog a piece of kibble. Praise him for being such a good puppy and return the toy. Step away, then repeat. If the toy isn’t that interesting and if you really heap on the praise, soon your dog will be hoping you come and take his toy away.

Once your pup is relaxed and happy when you take the toy, use a slightly more interesting toy. Repeat until it is easy for both of you.

If at any time he doesn’t give up the toy, forget the toy, pick up the lead and give him a few commands like come, heel, sit and down. At some point, he’ll drop the toy. When he does, praise him warmly as you move him away from it with the lead.

Some dogs have a harder time with this than others. If you ever feel uncomfortable, if your dog is growling at you or if things are getting worse instead of better, please contact a dog trainer or behavior professional for help.